Archive for February, 2009

What really matters is you


26 Feb

Esplanade, originally uploaded by Thorsten Becker.

Over the years I learned an important lesson when it comes to business that I’d like to share, especially with creatives: If anybody can do it everybody will do it, eventually. That means if something is easy to do and doesn’t require much effort it can and will quickly be replicated by someone else. This is certainly not a revolutionary insight. There is plenty of advice out there urging artists to be unique and authentic. But how to accomplish that? By being you. Anything you do must relate back to who you are. Do not try to artificially invent yourself or spend a tremendous amount of time coming up with a really clever idea. Chances are that by the time you’re ready someone else has already done it, and done it better, because it was in their blood.

On the other hand there is a constant lure of quick fame and money (though it’s diminished a bit in this economy). It may be tempting to execute on an idea without further refinement hoping to instantly turn it into a revenue creating business. The problem is that the resulting product(s), at that point, often lack character or personal trademark, something that connects them in a personal manner with their creator. The result is often a constant fear that someone will “steal” the idea or copy the product. Again, if it is easy to do then others will do it eventually, it’s common human behavior. We imitate the moment we are born. This is how we learn, this is how we acquire skills. But here is the important part: while we learn and grow we have to come into our own. We have to expand on the knowledge we’ve acquired by injecting our unique personal traits, anything that makes us ‘us’ – the way we hold the brush, the way we see and photograph our environment, the way we hear sounds and melodies, the way we talk, walk, feel, perceive and judge.

We could distill the preceding paragraphs into “be your personal best at what you do”. And while doing so do not compare yourself to others unnecessarily (it’s fine to admire but it should be left at that). There is a surprisingly fitting text in the bible:

“But let each one prove what his own work is, and then he will have cause for exultation in regard to himself alone, and not in comparison with the other person.” (Galatians 6:4)

How important and valuable are our own refined skills, how much of a difference does it make when we do things according to who we are? There is yet another interesting passage in the bible:

“Have you beheld a man skillful in his work? Before kings is where he will station himself; he will not station himself before commonplace men” (Proverbs 22:29)

Admittedly we may not literally offer our work to kings and nobles but we do want to put out work before people that admire it for it’s inherent quality and craftsmanship just like kings of old desired to have the best work in their palaces; skillful work will earn its rewards and recognition.

However, becoming skilled takes time. A German saying goes “gut Ding will Weile haben” meaning “a good thing takes time” (English equivalent: Rome wasn’t built in a day). Quality cannot be rushed. But it also cannot be easily replicated or copied. I find that quality and passion always show, even in products that at first may not reveal all the blood and sweat invested in them. They tend to emanate the personality of their creator. They also seem to attract a loyal following for years to come. And they certainly deter potential copycats. Again, people who copy other people’s work do so when it’s easy to do and promises instant gratification. Once the market has been flooded with similar products sales quickly trail off and the replicators move on to the next thing. Therefore be your personal best at what you do and you will succeed and not be bogged down with anxiety. Put your work on a solid foundation and inject it with your personality, let your well honed skills shine and you will accomplish impressive things that not only you enjoy but others appreciate, value and cherish.

Faith


25 Feb

Faith, originally uploaded by Thorsten Becker.

“Faith is the assured expectation of things hoped for, the evident demonstration of realities though not beheld”
Hebrews 11:1

No doubt these are difficult times hard to deal with. Many people are confronted with the loss of income – losing their jobs, their business, contracts, (life) savings – the things that enable us to sustain our lives. You may be forced to cope with such dealings right this moment. It happened to me a few times over the years but I always got back on my feet. I found that having faith assisted me. For example it enabled me to come across less desperate in interviews, be more composed and display confidence and calm. I was able to make good decisions rather than let panic, stress and anxiety cloud my thinking and actions. The point here is ‘enabled me’. I still had to get active, I didn’t sit back waiting for miracles to happen. I had to go out and do something. But having faith has always been reminiscent of a safety net beneath me – should I fall off the high wire of life I will not be severely crippled. Eventually I can get back up again. Faith provides peace of mind and what better image to illustrate this feeling than this curious Mourning Dove, which was sitting on our air conditioner one year peering through the window.

There is something important to keep in mind: faith is like a muscle, if it is not exercised regularly it shrinks and eventually becomes so weak that any form of pressure will break it (akin to falling through a poorly maintained net). It is important to make time to exercise your faith, daily – because once it’s broken it will no longer catch you when you do fall.

Some further readings on Faith as well as Mourning Doves.

A red dichotomy


25 Feb

A red dichotomy, originally uploaded by Thorsten Becker.

Fields of red
Color of passion
  Color of dread
Like love flowing
  Blood spilled
My appreciation, growing
  I turn in disgust
My heart rejoice’
  My soul shudders
For warmth fills its chambers
  As anger and rage flutters
As I imagine all the people
  Don’t want to think about
Living peacefully, in harmony
  Lost souls lie slain by the wayside
What sweet symphony
  Songs of despair in the air
When all come together in cherished unity
  Moaning all those who were, now gone and faded
Fields of red, on a warm summer day of no regret
  Those fields of red, filled with anguish and fret

How do you feel, my friend, about such sight?
  But alas, who would really want to hear my plight?
I do, for love makes me care
  Please do, for I need to share
So let that which divides us now bind us
  For I wish that red would no more be my dread
Hence we shall converge
Upon the fields of red

© Thorsten Becker

 

Perception is something I think about quite often, the way I see the world is distinct from the way others perceive it. We all have our own unique point of view though we do share similar feelings and emotions. Our experiences make us who we are, be they good or bad. In order to get along and live together harmoniously we need to realize that how we perceive things is not universal. We must be able to change our perception and show compassion and understanding for the perception of those around us, which may differ quite a bit from ours. Something that may seem positive and good to us could stir very different emotions in someone else. There is a need to converge or else we’ll divide.

Note: I wasn’t sure how to visually convey the idea of the poem of two distinct characters reminiscing so I am adding this as a footnote. You can actually read each voice in the first paragraph as a separate poem until they converge in the end.

Rider of the four winds


25 Feb

Rider of the four winds, originally uploaded by Thorsten Becker.

Rider of the four winds
Traveling
Over the sea of time
Towards shores of infinity
Wings spread wide
Gliding
On the stream of consciousness

© Thorsten Becker

Interesting fact about gulls (from Wikipedia):

“Gulls—the larger species in particular—are resourceful, inquisitive and highly intelligent birds, demonstrating complex methods of communication and a highly developed social structure; for example, many gull colonies display mobbing behaviour, attacking and harassing would-be predators and other intruders. In addition, certain species (e.g. the Herring Gull) have exhibited tool use behaviour.”

That golden path


24 Feb

That golden path, originally uploaded by Thorsten Becker.

To me life is about balance. I am always inclined to find what is referred to in German as the “goldener Mittelweg”, roughly translated the “golden (middle) path”, though the actual English equivalent is “happy medium”. I avoid extremes, my motto being that too much of a good thing is a bad thing. That doesn’t mean there is no room for excitement. Taking the term “golden path” literally one can imagine all the fantastic things that are found to the left and right of such a path.

While images of the land of Oz and its yellow brick road may spring to mind I much rather make up my own version. Hence I edited a picture that I took a few years back while walking through the beautiful Lüneburg Heath (a place I am very fond of). The sun was just setting and the cobblestone path I was on reflected some of those golden rays. It instantly reminded me of the “goldener Mittelweg”. Building upon the initial mood I liberally edited the color values until ending up with the current image. I personally imagine all sorts of exotic plants growing alongside (some appearing to be made of fire, others having a jade and ruby like appearance) as well as fantastic creatures scurrying around (I think I saw something hopping over there, to the left… and something seems to be fluttering in the tree up to the right). So being on such a golden path, that happy medium, does not feel depriving to me at all. In my mind it actually leads right through many fantastic experiences.

Walking down that path
That golden path
That shining road of harmony

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a different point of view